no one evades struggles in life. everyone suffers, that quiet girl in your math class, she was abused as a kid. that’s popular girl who’s always making everyone laugh, she doesn’t have any real friends. even the rich boy who makes fun of the way you look, his moms never home and when she is it’s with a new guy. no one suffers equally, but no one can avoid suffering. no one avoids suffering, some are just better at dealing with it