Dear Me

I wish I could go back and tell younger me that the reason you’re always running isn’t because you’re wild. It’s because every time you stopped moving, something hurt. I wish I could tell you that one day people will call you dramatic for bleeding from wounds they never watched being made. I wish I could tell you that you won’t always have to be the funny one, the tough one, the loud one, the one who swears they’re fine before anyone even asks. I wish I could tell you that the knot in your chest isn’t forever. But I’d be lying. Some things don’t leave. Some things just get quieter. I wish I could tell you that Mom and Dad become the people you needed. I wish I could tell you every goodbye gets an explanation. I wish I could tell you every empty chair gets filled. I wish I could tell you everyone who promised forever meant it. But I’d be lying again. So maybe I’d sit beside you instead. Maybe I’d let you keep drawing pictures of a future you haven’t given up on yet. Maybe I’d tell you that one day you’ll be eighteen and still feel twelve sometimes. That you’ll think you’ve gone backwards. That you’ll wonder what happened to the kid who was strong enough to survive everything. And then maybe I’d tell you the truth: She didn’t disappear. She just got tired. Tired of carrying grown-up grief with kid-sized hands. Tired of pretending she didn’t care. Tired of waiting by windows for people who never came. Tired of being brave. And if you started crying, I’d let you. Because nobody ever really let you before. Then I’d put a hand on your shoulder and tell you the one thing I think you needed most: You were a child. Not a problem. Not a burden. Not too much. A child. And none of those years should have felt that heavy.